It’s been nearly two weeks since I last blogged and I am almost upset that no-one has messaged / Facebook-ed / Tweeted me to see what has happened to me and why I have suddenly gone on an unannounced blog break… ย Well, it’s okay, I will pretend that you all missed me and my blog ๐Ÿ™‚ ย But yeah, if you have been a long-time reader, you will know that I stop blogging when my personal life goes tits up…and that is exactly what happened to me ๐Ÿ™

I apologise now if you left me a comment recently and I haven’t replied yet. ย I also apologise if you are a PR and I haven’t returned any of your emails and if I haven’t thanked you for the lovely Christmas care packages. ย And if youย were expecting to read my Christmas Gift Guide 2012, I want to point out that I had all my photos ready (see collage above) and I had drafted posts to tell you to check out the Christmas range at The Body Shop and the lovely Christmas gift sets at Priceline and Myer and so on… ย But unfortunately, lightning struck twice…

I’ve contemplated whether I should be so open about my personal life on this beauty blog because once you put yourself out there, people can take it the wrong way and attack you – like they constantly do on my personal blog. ย But I feel strangely comfortable here because I feel like I have more of a community here and it’s almost like this beauty blog and my readers are my BFFs – call me sad if you want ๐Ÿ˜› ย Anyway, here goes…

So last year, I told you all that my Husband and I found out we both have a blood problem which results in a 1 in 4 chance of having a baby which dies immediately before or after birth. ย Anyway, after genetic counselling and a lot of discussion, we decided to take a risk and try to start a family this year. ย We were both scared and excited when we found out we were pregnant in early 2012, but sadly not long afterwards, we lost the baby. ย I was distraught and you may remember, I went on one of my blog breaks. ย Anyway, we were totally blessed to discover we were pregnant for the second time in 2012 and this time round, I felt more positive and upbeat. ย I thought – This is it! ย I am finally going to be a Mummy!

But I’m not.

Two weeks ago, I was in and out of hospitals for tests to determine the viability of the baby but sadly, I miscarried. ย To make it ten times worse, I had a procedure to remove the remains of my second baby ON THE SAME WEEK that my first baby was due! ย Seriously, imagine what an emotional wreck I was and still am. ย I am not in the “Woe is me!” Club (aka Pity Party) so I still went to work with the worst pains ever and I haven’t even told any friends about it either (sorry friends who read this blog) and I am still acting pretty normal around people but come bedtime, when all is dark and quiet and I have nothing to distract me…BOOM! ย Oh my goodness, I am such a crybaby!!!

It is quite a sad and sombre time for me, but I know people go through a lot more hardship than me so I am trying not to dwell on my problems. ย But yeah, I need to go through a time of healing and restoration before I can start beauty blogging again… ย I am in such an ugly state at the moment with the hairiest brows, hairiest upper lip, flakiest skin and biggest eye bags ever!!! ย I have temporarily lost my passion to beautify myself… ย But I’ll get back on track eventually. ย If not, I give you permission to slap me silly!

In fact, it was my sister (who is currently in Melbourne for holidays – thank God my sis and Mum are here – it has helped me immensely!) who painted my toe nails a lovely sparkly emerald green colour before I went in for my mini operation. ย It was to distract the medical staff from my grossly untrimmed downstairs ๐Ÿ˜› ย (good to see my TMI sense of humour still exists!)

As for my Husband, he’s been very supportive as per usual…but he went on some crazy retail therapy and bought us a 7-seater car…! ย Umm… ย Whatever makes him happy ๐Ÿ˜‰ ย Wait till I get my retail therapy when I go to Hong Kong in 3 weeks time!

If you have made it this far, thank you for reading! ย I hope you and your family have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! ย Eat lots, drink lots and laugh lots – create everlasting memories ๐Ÿ™‚

I’ll be back next year (which is only next week!) and hopefully, 2013 will be a fantastic year ahead for all of us ๐Ÿ™‚

Lots of love,

Ling x

89 Comments on When Lightning Struck Twice…

  1. Shameless-quirks
    24/12/2012 at 1:28 pm (5 years ago)

    Stay positive Ling ๐Ÿ™‚
    I hope everything works out for you soon. In the mean time, merry Christmas!!! I hope 2013 will be a wonderful year for you and the hubby <3

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 3:58 pm (4 years ago)

      @Shameless-quirks, Thanks babe! Means a lot! And a VERY MERRY Christmas to you xxx

  2. Evelyn (cotton candy diva)
    24/12/2012 at 1:51 pm (5 years ago)

    Sorry to hear that you have been having a rough year, Ling! I hope 2013 is much brighter for you. Merry Christmas xo

  3. Paris B
    24/12/2012 at 2:14 pm (5 years ago)

    Thank you for sharing, Ling and I’m sorry to hear what a rough time you’ve had this year. Stay positive, take all the time you need and I wish you the best.

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:00 pm (4 years ago)

      @Paris B, Thanks so much for the support Paris! Life is a rollercoaster ride so now that I am down, the only way is up ๐Ÿ˜‰

  4. Tine
    24/12/2012 at 2:23 pm (5 years ago)

    Thanks for sharing, lovely. When one’s hit rock bottom, there’s nowhere else to go but up. At least, that’s what I tell myself each time I’m in the shithole, which is quite often ๐Ÿ˜›

    I have a strong feeling 2013 is going to be a good one for you, whatever it’s going to be.

    Have a blessed Christmas love. Hope to see you again soon in the new year.

    Tine xxx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:01 pm (4 years ago)

      @Tine, Totally agree! I am ready to go UP UP UP! And thanks again for being an amazing online and real-life friend! Hope to see more of you this year and not only at blogger events ๐Ÿ˜‰ xx

  5. Shivani
    24/12/2012 at 2:23 pm (5 years ago)

    All the best Ling ! Stay strong !:)

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:01 pm (4 years ago)

      @Shivani, Thanks hun!!!!

  6. Norlin
    24/12/2012 at 2:33 pm (5 years ago)

    Ling…glad you shared your story as I’m sure a lot of us who do love you would want to know what was going on. You know I’m here for you and it’s hard but you know where & how you can get me. xx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:02 pm (4 years ago)

      @Norlin, You’re so lovely and supportive! Are you even real????!!! ๐Ÿ˜›

  7. Rin
    24/12/2012 at 2:56 pm (5 years ago)

    *hugs* This is truly one of the most heartbreaking things that can happen to a woman, I’m sorry you had to go through it twice. Stay strong xx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:02 pm (4 years ago)

      @Rin, They have been such heartbreaking incidents…sigh… But I will stay strong and persist! Thank you for the support Rin xxx

  8. Sydney Shop Girl
    24/12/2012 at 3:20 pm (5 years ago)

    Oh hunny
    I am so sorry that you’ve had to go through this too.

    Hoping and praying for 2013. That it will all happen for you.

    I lost 3 in 2011 and am counting down the days until our miracle little boy arrives.

    Take care and be kind to yourself.

    SSG xxx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:05 pm (4 years ago)

      @Sydney Shop Girl, As I said before, I am so encouraged by your story. Thanks for sharing your journey on your blog. So glad to have somehow formed an online friendship with you…even though I have never seen your face and don’t even know your real name hah!

      Anyway, to have to go through THREE tragedies in one year must have been so heartbreaking. But super duper happy that your little miracle is arriving in single digit days :))))))

      I am going to pray extra hard for 2013 to be our year ๐Ÿ˜‰

      xxx

  9. Themadeupmaiden
    24/12/2012 at 4:02 pm (5 years ago)

    Hi Hun, I am so sorry to hear about what happened. My heart goes out to you. Know that your friends will always be here for you whenever you want to talk, although we understand that some things are hard to verbalize.

    So glad your mum and sister are with you! Take care of yourself.

    I think we can all look forward to a fresh start in 2013!

    Xx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:05 pm (4 years ago)

      @Themadeupmaiden, Thanks babe. You are AWESOME and I knew it when I first met you! Thanks for being there for me! See you soon xx

  10. Narelle Rock
    24/12/2012 at 4:06 pm (5 years ago)

    maybe hubby buying a bigger car is an omen for what is to come in 2013, sorry to hear about your losses, I too miscarried and as much as it hurts still there is always hope, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and New Year and look forward to hearing some awesome posts and blogs in the new year xx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:07 pm (4 years ago)

      @Narelle Rock, Aww thanks Narelle! You have always been so lovely to me. So sad to hear you suffered a miscarriage too…it’s actually surprisingly common!!!! But yeah, I have great hopes for next year so hoping for a miracle! Will keep you all posted xxx

  11. Sarah
    24/12/2012 at 4:38 pm (5 years ago)

    So sorry to hear about what has happenned, Ling. I had simply assumed that you were quiet as you had family over; getting into the Xmas spirit and all that kind of stuff. Big hugs from Adelaide xxx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:07 pm (4 years ago)

      @Sarah, Oh Sarah, you have such a kind soul! Thanks for the love and support. And can’t wait to meet you soon ๐Ÿ™‚

  12. shellie
    24/12/2012 at 4:42 pm (5 years ago)

    Of my gosh! I’m so sorry to hear about what you went through! *Hugs* I also hope for a wonderful 2013 for you both.

    Hang in there and Best holiday wishes.

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:08 pm (4 years ago)

      @shellie, Thanks Shellie! Virtual hugs are great!!! ๐Ÿ™‚ And yes, I can already tell that 2013 will be an awesome year! Hope you have a great year ahead too xx

  13. plue
    24/12/2012 at 4:57 pm (5 years ago)

    sorry to hear about what happen, but stay positive and take your time to heal ๐Ÿ™‚

    *hugs*

    all the best for you in 2013 for you and your hubby!

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:11 pm (4 years ago)

      @plue, Thanks beautiful plue!!!!! Wishing you a lovely year ahead too xxx

  14. Vita
    24/12/2012 at 5:02 pm (5 years ago)

    Oh shit Ling! I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I feel bad that somehow I didn’t twig that something was up. Take care – lots of hugs, and lots MORE hugs. May next year be a good one for all xoxo

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:12 pm (4 years ago)

      @Vita, Thank you my awesome DGAS xxx

  15. Di fm Max The Unicorn
    24/12/2012 at 5:47 pm (5 years ago)

    I’m so sorry for what you’ve gone through, Ling. Wishing you every success in the future. I hope you have a lovely Christmas ๐Ÿ™‚

  16. kerker
    24/12/2012 at 6:28 pm (5 years ago)

    Ling! I’m so sorry for what you are currently going through, I wouldn’t even imagine how hard it must be!! I’m sure 2013 will be your year. Lots of hugs!! Merry Christmas!!

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:14 pm (4 years ago)

      @kerker, Thank you gorgeous! Wanted to tell you girls at Ling’s Racing BBQ but didn’t know how to…it explains my fussy eating habits ๐Ÿ˜› Anyway, yeah, I’m very hopeful for 2013 ๐Ÿ™‚ Hope to see you soon xx

  17. Dempeaux
    24/12/2012 at 6:45 pm (5 years ago)

    I’m so sorry to hear about this Ling. Words seem a bit facile at such a sorrowful moment, but I really hope that one day you will be able to realise your dream of parenthood. I hope this Christmas brings you some much needed joy ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:15 pm (4 years ago)

      @Dempeaux, Oh Sarah, you always seem to know what to say! You have an amazing way with words!!!! Thanks so much babe! And hope you have a fab year ahead xxx

  18. Lilit - Makeup and Macaroons
    24/12/2012 at 8:14 pm (5 years ago)

    Oh babe, I’m sorry to hear this. I’m not going to pretend to know what you and your husband are going through, so all I will say is that my thoughts are with you… and I love how in typical Ling style you have sparkly green toenails while in hospital.
    xoxo

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:17 pm (4 years ago)

      @Lilit – Makeup and Macaroons, Thanks amazing Lilit!!! *mwah* And yeah, the green sparkly toenails are such a ME thing to do LOL. Hope you have had a lovely 1st Christmas with bubba! xx

  19. coco
    25/12/2012 at 1:59 am (5 years ago)

    I thought you’ve been quiet because you’re busy with your mom and sis. So sorry to hear about this. Lots of hugs and kisses from me and pretty girl. Hope you’ll have a great holiday in HK and better 2013!

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:17 pm (4 years ago)

      @coco, Thank you my pretties ๐Ÿ™‚ Means a lot to have so many supportive people ๐Ÿ™‚ And yeah, HK – I am going to shop and eat like never before ๐Ÿ˜‰

  20. Saera
    25/12/2012 at 2:32 am (5 years ago)

    Oh my goodness Ling, I’m so sorry you had to go through that twice in the one year…I honestly thought that you were too busy with your mother and sister but please be at ease. I am here for you if you need to speak and up your moral support.
    I know its hard but one day you will have a beautiful family, I know so!! Stay positive because even for some conceiving at all is the hardest part too. It will take time but wounds will heal and you can get back up on your feet and try again when you are ready ๐Ÿ™‚ You can do it!!
    Love you Ling and please please please, I’m always a tweet away <3

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:18 pm (4 years ago)

      @Saera, You are so gorgeous Saera! Your support is AMAZING! Can’t believe I am so blessed to know such a sweet girl like you! I am glad you are only a tweet away! THANK YOU! xxx

  21. Wendy
    25/12/2012 at 9:12 am (5 years ago)

    Hi Ling, sorry to hear of your loss. I hope 2013 will be a much brighter and positive year for you and your hubby. I keep checking your blog but I thought maybe you were super busy in the lead up to Christmas, etc.
    Thank you for sharing and all the best. xxx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:19 pm (4 years ago)

      @Wendy, Thanks so much Wendy!! Your love and support means a LOT!!! Hope you have a lovely year ahead xxx

  22. Anna M
    25/12/2012 at 11:35 am (5 years ago)

    *hugs*

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:19 pm (4 years ago)

      @Anna M, Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

  23. Rachel
    25/12/2012 at 10:17 pm (5 years ago)

    Don’t be too down Ling! I am sure that 2013 will be a much better year for you! Be the same as you are – joyful, bubbly, TMI-prone ๐Ÿ˜› I hope that you will have a lovely family soon, safe and sound. All the best!

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:20 pm (4 years ago)

      @Rachel, Thank you so much Rachel! And yeah, let’s hope 2013 will be fabulous year for ALL OF US! ๐Ÿ™‚

  24. Rachel
    25/12/2012 at 11:11 pm (5 years ago)

    Ling, I’m so sorry for what you have had to go through, and hope 2013 bring you much more luck and happiness.

    xx

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:22 pm (4 years ago)

      @Rachel, *smile* Thank you SO MUCH Rachel for the love and support! xxx

  25. Megan
    26/12/2012 at 3:46 pm (4 years ago)

    Poor Ling, what a tough time you’ve been having. Don’t be scared to talk to people though it’s not healthy to bottle things up at all which many women are prone to doing when they go through this kind of loss. It seems you have a wonderful husband and family and all of the beauty blogging community is here for you too should you ever need anything xoxo

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:22 pm (4 years ago)

      @Megan, I am super blessed to have amazing supportive beauty blogging friends like you! Thank you Megan xxx

  26. Miss Kitty
    26/12/2012 at 10:46 pm (4 years ago)

    all the best to you ling… so sorry to hear what has happened. always here if you need someone to chat to, but i’m sure the odds are in your favour for next year ๐Ÿ™‚ lots and lots of love to you (and noah)!

    • Ling
      27/12/2012 at 4:23 pm (4 years ago)

      @Miss Kitty, *mwah* Thank you beautiful Kitty!!! Mucho love to you for being such an awesome friend xxx

  27. Ashlynn
    27/12/2012 at 9:06 pm (4 years ago)

    Oh, my dearest Ling,
    I have been so out of the blogging world lately, so I’m sorry I didn’t get to send you my love sooner ๐Ÿ™
    I can’t begin to know how you’re feeling. I’ve never met you in person,but I do feel that you’re a kind, sweet, strong person, and one of my favorite people in this blogging world. Beauty is truly held within, and I know that you’re beautiful no matter what – overgrown hair and all. ๐Ÿ™‚
    My heart goes out to you and your husband, and I do hope that one day, maybe soon, a child/children will be blessed to call you their Mummy and Daddy.
    Much love to you, Ling.
    -Ashlynn

    • Ling
      03/01/2013 at 8:13 pm (4 years ago)

      @Ashlynn, Oh Ashlynn, you are truly a sweetheart. Thank you for your beautiful words of love and encouragement! <3 I can't remember how we started chatting to each other online but I am very grateful that we did start chatting because you are such a generous and loving person! I hope we meet one day in person so I can give you a big THANK YOU hug *mwah*

  28. Libby
    28/12/2012 at 12:07 am (4 years ago)

    I’m so sorry to hear this Ling. I can’t imagine what you must be going through.
    I really admire you for being able to able to speak about it in a public forum.
    Every good wish.

    • Ling
      03/01/2013 at 8:14 pm (4 years ago)

      @Libby, Thank you Libby for your lovely comment of support. Happy 2013 to you ๐Ÿ™‚

  29. Helen
    28/12/2012 at 12:21 am (4 years ago)

    Ling, as a newer reader/follower (I was intro’d to you via Reese at a bloggers dinner), I had no idea and am saddened by your news. But as you said which you’re perfectly right about, there’s many others less fortunate than us. For me, I get instantly slammed with reality and the silliness of my daily woes when I see someone blind trying to find their way about in the city. Best of luck with trying again, power to you both! And I hope you’re having a better end of year hun ๐Ÿ™‚ xx

    • Ling
      03/01/2013 at 8:15 pm (4 years ago)

      @Helen, I love Reese! I’ve only met her once but she is so lovely in person and online too! Feel totally blessed to be introduced by her! Thanks for leaving a lovely comment. I am glad 2012 is over because 2013 is going to be MY year in better ways than I can dream of ๐Ÿ™‚ Hope it is the same for you too xxx

  30. Kay
    28/12/2012 at 9:38 am (4 years ago)

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

    • Ling
      03/01/2013 at 8:15 pm (4 years ago)

      @Kay, Thank you Kay

  31. nadia
    30/12/2012 at 5:13 am (4 years ago)

    Sorry to hear of your loss, stay positive and am sure 2013 will be an extra special year for you! ๐Ÿ™‚ i had the same experience in 2012 myself so i know exactly how you’re feeling, but don’t give up as i’m sure it’ll all work out wonderfully for you in the end. Take care and wishing you a blessed and happy 2013! ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Ling
      03/01/2013 at 8:16 pm (4 years ago)

      @nadia, Thanks Nadia! I am so sorry to hear of your experience too and sad to see you leave Melbourne but just know that I am only an email away xxx

  32. Rachel from Redcliffe Style
    30/12/2012 at 8:24 am (4 years ago)

    Oh Ling, this is so sad. I lost one baby and I was devastated, I can’t imagine the pain of two. Thinking and praying for you and I hope you are successful this year. Rachel xx

  33. Dayani
    01/01/2013 at 11:28 pm (4 years ago)

    I don’t even know what to say ๐Ÿ™
    Thinking of you and your husband and wishing you both good things in 2013 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    • Ling
      03/01/2013 at 8:17 pm (4 years ago)

      @Dayani, Wow, thanks so much Dayani! You don’t have to say anything but just leaving a lovely comment like this is enough to make me smile ๐Ÿ™‚ Thank you

  34. Annabella Freeman
    03/01/2013 at 8:59 am (4 years ago)

    I haven’t blogged for several weeks now myself, so it’s not like you weren’t missed I think a lot of bloggers take a break around this time of year.

    As for what you are going through I’m not going to lie and say I understand because I’ve never wanted children. I do however admire your honesty and sharing your pain with your readers. Hopefully it will go towards helping you heal. Blessings and good wishes to you and your husband for 2013 xoxo

    • Ling
      03/01/2013 at 8:20 pm (4 years ago)

      @Annabella Freeman, Holiday blog breaks are awesome! But at the same time for an avid blog reader like me, I miss all my favourite bloggers including you ๐Ÿ˜‰

      And thanks Annabella for your honest and supportive comment. Sometimes I wish it was easier if we didn’t want children but we do!!! I always dreamt that I’d have 6 kids…now we will be blessed if we have ONE healthy child! But I am positive it will happen one day ๐Ÿ˜‰ Happy 2013 to you too *mwah*

  35. beetrice
    03/01/2013 at 4:11 pm (4 years ago)

    Sorry to hear about your recent loss, and here’s sending you heaps of good vibes for 2013! Stay positive, stay strong and as Tine said, there’s nowhere else to go but up! *HUGZ*

    • Ling
      03/01/2013 at 8:21 pm (4 years ago)

      @beetrice, Hear hear! Thanks B! Means a lot! And yes, 2013 is gonna be an awesome year for everyone ๐Ÿ™‚ Hope I get a real-life hug from you one day ๐Ÿ˜‰ *mwah*

  36. E-von
    03/01/2013 at 10:56 pm (4 years ago)

    My dear Ling…I’m terribly sorry for not keeping in touch and very sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot fathom what you and your hubby must be going through, as a loss of a baby, child, fetus would be heart wrenching.

    My thoughts are of you, take care and hope to see your smiling face once again on this blog. But take all the time you need to to heal xoxo

    • Ling
      30/01/2013 at 8:51 pm (4 years ago)

      @E-von, It was a heart wrenching 2012 but I survived ๐Ÿ™‚ And I am looking forward to what 2013 will bring. Thanks again for the amazing support E-von! x

  37. Yann
    04/01/2013 at 4:20 am (4 years ago)

    Happy new year Ling!

    I’m sorry this has happened again. I went through 2 losses myself. Latest in june last year and I even had to go through the small op twice to remove the remnants of the pregnancy. I was devastated. But third time’s a charm. I am pregnant again and nearing 16 weeks now. Not totally in the clear yet but I’m prayerful and hopeful. This year will be a year for us I’m sure! Feel free to talk to me anytime if you need somemone to talk to..

    • Ling
      30/01/2013 at 8:53 pm (4 years ago)

      @Yann, Congratulations Yann! So happy to hear that you have overcome 2 losses with a winner the 3rd time. Fingers crossed that happens to me too ๐Ÿ™‚ Have you found out the sex of the baby yet?

  38. rinnah
    05/01/2013 at 3:57 am (4 years ago)

    I just only caught up with my blog reading and am so sorry to hear of your loss Ling. Stay strong and I am believing with you that 2013 will be YOUR year. *big hugs*

    • Ling
      30/01/2013 at 8:57 pm (4 years ago)

      @rinnah, Thank you Rinnah – I have only just logged onto my blog today so I feel bad for replying so late ๐Ÿ˜› But thanks for the *big hugs* – they are awesome ๐Ÿ™‚

  39. Catherine
    15/01/2013 at 3:51 pm (4 years ago)

    Remain positive and I do believe that people who work hard, try their best to remain positive and believe it will happen, get rewarded ten-fold for their patience :] Never you worry that you have been neglecting your blog, because above all, your friends, family and readers want you to put yourself first. You are important to us and we want nothing more than your happiness and safety. Don’t ever feel we will walk away from you if you are in need of putting yourself first :]

    Love you long time love and will definitely catch up for a pigging out sesh when you get back from HK <3

    <3 always, khatsii

    • Ling
      30/01/2013 at 9:00 pm (4 years ago)

      @Catherine, Thank you babe! You are such a star! Love you lots xxx

  40. Cynthia
    16/01/2013 at 2:22 pm (4 years ago)

    I hope you’ll get better dear and I know what’s like as well. No words can express how you are feeling at this moment and no words can comfort this time, only time can heal. I miscarried mine a few years ago a day before New Years Eve. My heart just broke as well and it was difficult for me to move on. I’ll be praying for you!

    • Ling
      30/01/2013 at 9:01 pm (4 years ago)

      @Cynthia, Thank you so much for the prayers Cynthia. Prayers heal miraculously ๐Ÿ™‚ And really sorry to hear you went through the same thing too…. but yay, you have your beautiful child now…so I will wait for God to give me one too ๐Ÿ™‚ xx

  41. Tabitha
    21/01/2013 at 10:20 pm (4 years ago)

    Aww Ling I didn’t know ๐Ÿ™ I’m so sorry hope all is well.

    • Ling
      30/01/2013 at 9:01 pm (4 years ago)

      @Tabitha, *mwah* Thanks Tab!

  42. Marnie
    27/01/2013 at 4:05 pm (4 years ago)

    I’m very sorry for your pain Ling. I missed you….but I’m just useless at leaving comments even on good days.
    Please take care. Will be thinking of you.
    xx Marnie

    • Ling
      30/01/2013 at 9:02 pm (4 years ago)

      @Marnie, Thanks Marnie – it’s okay, I am in a better place than I was a few weeks ago xx

  43. Julie
    04/02/2013 at 9:58 am (4 years ago)

    I had no idea :(, Sending you some prays and fingers cross it goes well.

    • Ling
      06/02/2013 at 9:51 pm (4 years ago)

      @Julie, You’re awesome! Thank you <3

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